I used too many spoons today. I will pay for it tomorrow.
According to the “spoon theory,” I have a limited number of spoons to use each day. Spoons represent energy expended when doing everyday chores and activities. Different tasks require different amounts of spoons: Loading the dishwasher uses fewer spoons than going for a hike. People with disabilities or chronic illnesses must be extra mindful of how many spoons they’ve used. Some days I may use less and others days too many. I can “borrow” from tomorrow for a big day, but when I do, the next day is grueling.
I have Charcot-Marie-Tooth 1A and am learning to be wise about my spoons. I must make choices every day about which activities to do or not. Healthy people do not really need to think about spoons and often find it hard to understand why I do.
Most days after work, I take a 15-minute rest, putting my feet up and closing my eyes. After particularly challenging days at school, I actually fall asleep. After my rest, I tackle the chore of making dinner and then cleaning the kitchen. That sometimes uses two spoons. If I am not exhausted, I may go to the gym or clean. If exhausted, I probably will be in my pajamas and possibly in bed. I may read or just go to sleep.
I recently used too many spoons by moving furniture to vacuum on a weeknight. I admit, not my brightest idea, but it had to be done. Yes, I know it probably could have waited, but I was afraid that if I waited, it would never get done. So, I did that, then went to work the next day. I stayed up too late that evening and got up early the following day. I have now used too many spoons and not given my body recovery time.
I spent the next day out with my son and friends. It was a great day but now I am paying for using too many spoons. I knew I overdid it when the mere thought of cooking made me decide cereal was a perfect dinner option. This was, of course, after I fell asleep on the couch for about an hour.
I am learning the importance of assessing each task and prioritizing. Do I want to go out to celebrate with a friend this evening? Of course! However, with no spoons left, I’ve decided it is not the best idea for me to go. I know my friend will understand and I am learning not to feel bad about these things. It is not always easy living with a disability. I try to do as much as I can and am learning my limits. But for now, I need to put my feet up and rest.
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