It’s OK to Have a Bad Day Now and Then

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Meeting a new neurologist is always an adventure. My son and I recently had our annual appointments at the Johns Hopkins Charcot-Marie-Tooth (CMT) Center in Baltimore. Our appointments were with a new neurologist because ours left the center for a new job opportunity.

I had the usual assessments: I was asked to walk normally, walk on my toes (which I cannot do anymore), and walk on my heels (I couldn’t do that, either). I also underwent strength assessments. The good news is that my muscle strength has not changed significantly in the past year. The doctor did say that my right ankle is much weaker than my left, but that was not surprising to me.

After she tested me, she did the same with my son. His strength is the same as it was last year. The neurologist noted that his symptoms appear to be mild. She said that those who start with mild symptoms typically remain a mild case. I hope that is true. I often feel guilty for passing CMT on to him.

When I got home, I felt uneasy about my own CMT. There are days when this disease gets to me, and I think this one was brought on by the visit to the neurologist. I usually have a positive attitude about CMT, but after the appointment I felt a little sorry for myself. It was not that I had gotten bad news or been told anything I did not know already.

I realize that others have more severe symptoms than I do. There are many things I still can do. Yet I was feeling sad for the things I cannot do. Maybe it was because I could not walk on my toes, which I probably have not been able to do for a few years. I am not sure why it bothered me after this visit. Perhaps it is symbolic of other things I cannot do. I know that I should not fret over these losses, but sometimes it is OK to feel this way.

There is nothing wrong with a day of self-pity as long as it does not stick around. I gave myself a day to be angry and fed up with CMT. After that, I had a cup of hot cocoa with whipped cream and a good night’s sleep. The next day was better. I know there will be other days when I feel this way, but I also know it is going to be OK.

There is nothing wrong with having a bad day now and then. It is alright to hide under the covers and have a good cry. Afterward, it is time to move forward and face the day.

How do you bounce back from a rough day? Please share your experiences in the comments so we can learn from one another!


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Marilyn Jackson avatar

Marilyn Jackson

It is definitely ok to mourn the losses and then pick ourselves up and go on... I pick myself up by deliberately looking at my blessings, and I have many, my children, grandchildren and now a great grandchild. My loss that I most grieve now would be being able to walk, distance has been stolen from me, once I was able to walk whole shopping centres looking for bargains, or walk in the bush or on a beach, now i have to decide if i can make the distance to buy one thing from one aisle in a shop and decide what thing in what aisle is most important at the time, some days that is too much for my legs... but I am blessed I have a wonderful daughter who will do for me what I can't do myself even though she now is being affected quite severely by CMT... She understands... Hugs to you <3

Jill Price avatar

Jill Price

Thank you! Some days it just gets me down. I try hard be positive.


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