The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly of Charcot-Marie-Tooth

The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly of Charcot-Marie-Tooth

I recently read a post on social media about “mom confessions”: the good, bad, and ugly things we do as moms. Trust me, I have my fair share of those confessions. I began to think about it in terms of my Charcot-Marie-Tooth disease (CMT), the good, bad, and ugly things that have happened due to this crazy disease.

I know that living with a disability is not easy. There will be trials and tribulations. Some of them are funny and some are not. The day-to-day issues can be overwhelming at times, as with any chronic disease. It can help to see the humor or bright side to the craziness we face daily.

My confessions:

  • I may use the fact that it is difficult to navigate steps to get out of taking the trash to the dumpster.
  • I have scraped my knees more than my son. When he was little his pediatrician asked his nurse to tend to a particularly nasty cut on my knee.
  • If I sit on the floor or the grass, I need help getting up. When I was at a National Memorial Day concert, I sat on the grass and tried to get up without help — not the best idea. Thankfully, the two young men in front of me were very understanding and helpful as I fell into them not once but twice.
  • Opening jars is not a task meant for people with hand issues. I have an entire collection of jar openers and grips. Some days they help and some days they don’t.
  • I tried to open a bottle of wine with a corkscrew. Let’s just say it did not turn out well.
  • I have groceries delivered because I don’t want to carry all the items up the stairs. Otherwise, I go grocery shopping when I know my son will be home to help me unload the car.
  • I once stepped off a curb and broke my heel. Another time, I stepped off and busted my knee so badly that I needed 15 stitches. Both times, I did nothing but step the wrong way.
  • One day, I tripped over the corner of the rug in my classroom. I landed feet-up and flat on my back. The only thing hurt was my pride.

I could look at that list and think about how awful it all is, but I try not to. Thankfully, I have not been seriously hurt in most of the situations. I’ve needed a few stitches here and there but nothing more. It is easy to get depressed and feel sorry for myself, but that is not what I want to do.

Looking back at some of these situations, they are not as awful as they seemed at the time. I survived them and can even laugh about most of them now. Seriously, who breaks their heel by stepping off a curb? I am one of the few but that’s OK — it makes me unique. At least, that’s what my mom would say.

What are some of the good, bad, and ugly things that have happened to you?

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4 comments

  1. I have broken my leg while standing in water only as high as my ankle, two little waves came in succession, i thought i’d just sprained my ankle, so walked on it for a week, only to have the bone split up ways 15 cm, I have stepped on a towel i didn’t see and done similar stupid stuff, I have done the spin around fall, but not go down, automatically grabbing complete strangers on the way to regain my balance, some were gracious others not so, I understood, and laughed after. and so much more, and yes every time no matter what I could laugh once I recovered, i have ripped my knee apart while playing badminton, yep just badminton, and had an op which took 10mths to recover from, but i look back and laugh, who would believe this stuff… hahaha

  2. Kristen Butorovich says:

    Thanks Jill.
    Yes, I have those moments too.
    -Trying to ride a bike with my family and take more spills than a child learning. But I will keep doing it!
    -Walking and tripping for NO reason. My daughter thinks it’s hilarious (12 yr old humor).
    -Not buying button shirts as I can’t button.
    -Holding a glass and dipping it for no reason.
    -I have a bad gait and I swear people stare at me all the time. I’m trying to think of a funny one liner to spit out.
    plus all the things on your list pretty much…
    Life is def harder with CMT. My priest has it and is in a wheel chair. He also has severe breathing issues. So at this point I’m grateful that I can still function. It’s making me stronger and appreciating my cross.
    Hang in there girl

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