I’m Thinking of Starting a Support Group

I’m Thinking of Starting a Support Group

A crazy idea came to me early one morning when I couldn’t sleep: Find or start a support group for women with disabilities. While there are many online communities, there are few in-person support groups for women with disabilities.

I have Charcot-Marie-Tooth disease (CMT) type 1A, and though it is the most common inherited disease affecting the peripheral nervous system, I know of only a few people who suffer from it. I belong to some online communities and Facebook groups, which are a great way to get support and advice from others, but I feel that something is missing from these groups.

One missing aspect with these online groups is personal interaction; the connection you get when you meet and talk with someone face to face. That thought is what led to my 3 a.m. aha! moment of starting a support group for women with disabilities. As moms, daughters, sisters, friends, and co-workers, we face challenges every day. It would be nice to have a “tribe” that understands how difficult this life can be. I have great friends who do try to understand and are very supportive, and I love them for it, but they do not live with a chronic illness or disability, so they do not truly get it.

While many real-world support groups exist for caregivers and parents, including meetups, none of these are specifically geared toward women. Or at least that’s the case in my area. Surely, I’m not the only one who finds something missing from online communities.

So, how do I start a support group? What do I envision for the group? How would I manage to run a community alongside my family and work responsibilities? I’m still pondering these questions. I am not sure where to begin. Do I contact a social worker at a local hospital or get in touch with the Muscular Dystrophy Association’s advocacy program? Where would we meet? Perhaps at a local coffee shop, library, or park. What would the focus be? I would like to have guest speakers discuss topics such as motivation strategies, health concerns, and how to deal with everyday challenges.

I would love to create a community of women who help to build each other up.

Do you have any ideas about how I could make this happen? Please comment below.

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16 comments

  1. Laurel Richardson says:

    Hi Jill!
    I would love to chat with you about this amazing idea. I am the Director of Community Outreach for the CMTA and would be so happy to brainstorm with you. I also have CMT 1A. My email is [email protected], please send me an email if you want to chat.

    Thank you!
    Laurel

  2. Sue Green says:

    I would like an in person support group and I live in Savannah, GA. The closest to me is 2 hours away (Jacksonville, FL) I would love one for women. I’ve thought about starting it too, but not sure how to find out who to invite! I thought of giving a notice to my Neurologist to but not sure if they would really want to be involved. Can the CMT organization notify people in my area? Thanks Sue

  3. Govind Gupta says:

    Hi Jill,

    i would really appreciate your thought, but would like to draw you attention towards other similar rare neurological disorders like hereditary sensory autonomic neuropathy where patient group is even small but the symptoms are similar. if there a group which will be for all similar patient group it would be great.

    i would like to connect with you. My email address is [email protected]

  4. Jim Harpel says:

    Hi Jill- I am Jim & I have CMT. I have AFO braces & they are very annoying but they do help my left ankle alot- My tendon is completely dead & my ankle rolls out of control. My mom has drop foot really bad. I have led a fairly good life until 3 years ago I had a toe amputated because I stepped on glass & got infected- Am now 52 & notice it affecting me alot worse.

  5. Dominic says:

    Jill,

    My girl has CMT which has become aggressive over just the last year. She is having trouble coping with her new limitations. I want to help her find a support group in Las Vegas, NV where she can exchange feels and fears with people going through the same condition but the only one I can find doesn’t meet till October. Do you have any suggests?

    • Jill Price says:

      My suggestion would be to contact the CMTA and see if there is a branch in your area. It can be very hard to deal with on your own. How old is your daughter?

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