Summer Is for Wearing Shorts

Summer Is for Wearing Shorts

“What did you do to yourself?”

That was the first thing the saleswoman at the dress shop said to me before she even said hello. I was taken aback by her question. My good friend realized this and started to answer, “Nothing …” Then I gained my composure: “Nothing, I was just born this way.” The question really threw me, and that was the only response I could come up with.

It was the first time I was wearing shorts with my ankle-foot orthotics (AFOs). I also had my folding cane since we walked to the dress shop and around the town. Wearing shorts was a difficult decision because I knew people would see the AFOs. I was not so sure I was ready for the stares and comments. I certainly wasn’t expecting one like that. I do not think she meant any harm by her question, and I want to believe it was coming from a good place. I want to. But part of me feels it was an inappropriate thing for an adult to say.

I survived that uncomfortable incident, but it took me a while to wear shorts again. I do not feel good about having to wear the AFOs as it is. It is just something I need to deal with, and having people stare or ask questions like that makes it harder. I know a few people with AFOs who never wear shorts or skirts because of that.

I recently decided that I was going to wear shorts anyway because, honestly, it has been around 100 degrees. I am not going to suffer because some people do not have enough sense not to make others feel bad about themselves. I have started to wear some of my cute, short summer dresses. It is hot, and I should be able to be to be comfortable. I also discovered the joy of a maxi skirt! They are so comfortable and easy to wear! I love them!

From the incident in the dress shop, I realized that people are going to say or do things that make me uncomfortable, but I get to choose how to react to it. I decide how it makes me feel and how I want to handle it. It is OK just to smile and give a short but polite answer. It is also OK to smile then walk away. It is OK to dress how you feel comfortable and not worry about what others will think.

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One comment

  1. Linda Jo Nelson says:

    You go on and rock the shorts, the skirts, the maxi skirts! It’s hot, it’s summer and people are going to be stupid. Don’t let others stop you from being you. Honestly I don’t even notice the AFOs. Mine were jet black and I looked like a Terminator. Never bothered me. Now I have an E-stim device on my leg, like a big cuff and man do I get sick of being asked what it is. Just part of who we are.

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