I’m Learning to Appreciate the Slower Pace of CMT Life
Columnist Young Lee acknowledges one "gift" of his disease
Can Charcot-Marie-Tooth disease (CMT) be a gift?
Many in our community have pondered this question, and I’ve written about it before. But I’ve been thinking about the idea again after my sister brought it up while we were visiting our parents in Ohio recently.
My sister is the type of person who strives to see setbacks or inconveniences as opportunities to learn and grow. This perspective is rooted in her spiritual beliefs and worldview. Although I share many of the same beliefs, acknowledging CMT’s “gifts” hasn’t been particularly natural or easy for me.
In fact, overemphasizing the possible upsides of challenging experiences can be a particularly exasperating aspect of toxic positivity. This perspective often seems to dismiss the very real struggles and pain that come from hardship. When people who don’t know me urge me to find the silver lining in difficult times, it can feel deeply callous.
Still, when I’m intentional about learning the lessons CMT may be able to teach me, I find there are certainly aspects of CMT life that are worthy of gratitude. For example, while managing her own CMT symptoms, my sister discovered that the disease forces her to take things more slowly.
As many CMTers know, it’s hard to move quickly with a funky gait, unstable hands, and clumsy feet. However, by managing these aspects of CMT and accepting rather than fighting them, I can take these symptoms as cues from my body to slow down and take my time — to appreciate the moments I might miss if I move through life too quickly.
Life can be beautiful, and there are plenty of small things to savor.
Taking time to listen to my body, even if it’s because my CMT symptoms are forcing me to do so, allows me to sit, relax, and listen to the birds sing. I have time to examine the clouds and cherish the way a summer breeze hits my face.
I know this may sound silly to some. The cynical part of me wonders if I’m just doing mental gymnastics to justify my positive thinking.
But given how easy it is these days to be overwhelmed with alerts from all of our electronic devices, current events, and general busyness, I think I’ll just accept this particular “gift” of CMT with gratitude.
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